Geeta Kapur, one of television’s most popular choreographers and reality show judges, recently opened up about the behind-the-scenes realities of reality television. She shared her thoughts on a podcast hosted by Bharti Singh and Haarsh Limbachiyaa, where the conversation steered toward the age-old question, are reality shows scripted?
As the discussion unfolded, Bharti raised a question many viewers have often wondered about. She asked if the on-screen drama, heated arguments, and contestants storming off stage were genuine or carefully planned for entertainment. Responding honestly, Geeta stated, “It’s still true even today. I won’t lie. You can’t force yourself to cry. If we were just acting, we would be doing something else.”
Geeta pointed out how viewers often believe what they see is completely scripted. She admitted that while certain elements are planned to maintain the show’s pace and structure, the emotions shown on screen are largely real. She explained how the reality of these shows is more than just dramatic storytelling. There are moments when the guests, after appearing on set, break down and confess that they assumed it was all fake. It’s only after participating that they realize the emotions run deep and are often impossible to rehearse.
She also brought up Bigg Boss as an example. Geeta remarked, “But a show that runs 24 hours a day with cameras watching, how much of that can really be acting?” This example highlighted how certain formats of reality TV, particularly those involving constant surveillance, make it difficult for participants to maintain a façade.
The conversation took an interesting turn when Haarsh discussed how contestants’ life stories get structured and packaged for television. He observed how a narrative is often built around a participant’s background to give viewers a reason to connect with them. Geeta acknowledged this point and addressed the importance of storytelling in reality shows. She said, “As a writer, you would understand this. And the credit should go to the writers who grasp this truth. No matter how much we claim we only want to see the dance, we’re always curious about the person’s story. We’re all voyeurs in our own way.”
Geeta also took a moment to reflect on her early days in the world of television. She fondly remembered her first reality show, Dance India Dance, and the bond she shared with veteran actor Mithun Chakraborty, who served as the Grand Master on the show. She recalled how during auditions in Kolkata, the most exciting part was meeting Mithun Da. Geeta said, “He has such a charming personality. Only television can do this, bring you face-to-face with people you grew up watching. They’re superstars, and you never imagine you’ll ever get to meet them… and then you do.”
She even humorously confessed that she once got an opportunity to flirt with Mithun Da, a memory she still treasures. Moments like these, Geeta feels, are the true magic of television; unplanned, unscripted, and genuinely heartwarming.
Through this candid conversation, Geeta Kapur gave fans a rare glimpse into the intricate blend of planning and spontaneity that makes reality shows successful.
